Vaginismus & fingering
How can I get aroused if I cannot have a finger in my vagina?
Answer: quite easily.
Contrary to popular belief, a woman does not need a finger in her vagina to be sexually aroused; what she does need is clitoral stimulation!
Does a finger in the vagina feel nice? Does it enhance sexual arousal? That depends on the woman’s sexual style and preferences. It is not a decision that her partner should make for her.
Can she masturbate and get to an orgasm if her vagina cannot have any penetration (vaginismus)? Of course. See above.
Bottom line (no pun intended): women with vaginismus can lead a sexually satisfying life.
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Is it true that the larger the clitoral hood, the more sexual stimulation (and a better orgasm) is achieved? I know some women who have a rather bulbous clitoris that looks like a small penis. They always seem to get off harder than the shriveled-up cooter-meat bearers.
Comment by johnnypeepers — April 16, 2008 @ 9:04 pm