Can you have an orgasm during intercourse?
Fact #1: most women cannot, so consider yourself in normal, healthy company!
Fact #2: the vagina is not an erogenous structure but a passageway. If it were capable of sexual arousal, then tampons would have been a delight as would gynecologic exams…
Fact #3: the clitoris is the female’s erogenous structure, the anatomical parallel to the male’s penis. Clitoral stimulation – direct or indirect – is necessary for female sexual arousal.
If your partner’s penis is not aligned so as to rub your clitoris in an arousing way during intercourse, you will need to apply direct clitoral stimulation if you wish to orgasm simultaneously with him. You can use your hand, his hand, a vibrator, etc.
Remember: it is about anatomy and physiology, not about your or his sexual wants!
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I disagree slightly. I have had, um, a certain ultrasound test that was VERY arousing. No clitoral stimulation whatsoever…But the lights were dimmed and she took her time, unlike the rushed and exposed GYN exams with those ridiculous instruments they use. As for tampons, they can be TINY and also rough because they are cotton…So I don’t agree that the vagina, or at least my vagina (SUPER VAGINA) is a “stupid canal.” Just maybe not quite as bright as the clitoris.
LOVED your class in Orlando and plan to keep in touch.
“Super Vagina 1″ a.k.a. Barb
Comment by Barbara — August 11, 2009 @ 5:02 pm |